-Kevin

Thanks for the comment. I agree that, some people, can reform and learn from their mistakes. But, not all.

At some point, it also comes down to who are as people. I’ve never really done any of these things. And I’d never do them, regardless of my desperation. And, knowing you, I’m sure you could say the same for yourself.

I think there is another important factor, in addition to experience and desperation. It is who we are as people and how we treat other people with respect. Receiving an e-mail from me politely requesting that our rank images be removed, ignoring it and, instead, marking your forums invisible is not what a respectable person does.

While there are people who can learn from their mistakes, apologize and improve – there are also people out there who just will never get it because of who they are as a human being.

Patrick

I think the behaviour of this individual comes down to a combination of two factors: desperation and inexperience.

Typically, many who start new communities don’t have a clue how to successfully develop them. They will take a look at communities they are familiar with, and wish they had the same success.

Before long, a little lightbulb will illuminate above their heads as they realise they have a well targeted audience in that successful, established community. Because they don’t know how to legitimately market their site, they pursue the underhand methods you mention.

Of course, it’s unacceptable and they wouldn’t appreciate the same thing happening to them. Unfortunately though, the chances are they just don’t have a clue how to make a success of their site without attempting to poach members from other online communities.

- Martin Reed