I Get More Relevant Answers to Questions on Forums Than Facebook
When I use platforms, I don’t think “what is this platform a replacement for?” I think “what is this platform good at?” Each platform has strengths and weaknesses.
I think Facebook is great. I use it every day. It excels at keeping me in contact with people on a personal level. This post isn’t to criticize Facebook. It’s not Facebook’s fault that some want to look at it as a be-all end all of social interaction on the web.
A perfect example of this, at least in my experience, is when questions are asked. It has reached the point where when I ask questions on Facebook, I feel an uncomfortable urge to qualify the question more than I usually would, just to hopefully mitigate poor answers that I might be able to anticipate.
One of the most challenging parts of asking questions on Facebook is how often people do not fully read the question and proceed to provide an answer that isn’t to the question asked. It happens to me all the time but I also constantly see it happening to Facebook friends that I have. A recent (and hilarious) example was when a friend of mine asked: “Where can I buy curtains for a window?” He explained that he needed them in a short amount of time and wanted somewhere that could meet that timeline.
One of the answers he received was: “You could make curtains.” On its face, this may seem like a well meaning suggestion. Here’s the problem: it’s specifically what he did not ask for and is a waste of his time. The person who answered didn’t read the question or, at least, didn’t feel that the question was worth answering. When you say you want to “buy curtains,” that means you want to buy curtains. Not make them. “Buy” is a qualification. An explanation of your timeline and a desire to have them arrive by a certain time is a qualification. Furthermore, the person who answered the question knew my friend and, as such, should know that he would never make curtains.
Not only did the answerer disregard the question, but where the personal connection should be able to help (in knowing that my friend is not the type to make curtains), it didn’t.
I receive and see other people receiving answers like this frequently.
However, when I post on forums, I am generally more satisfied with the answers that I receive. For me, this is one of the areas where Facebook can’t touch forums. Yes, forums have plenty of off topic banter, but when you ask a question on a forum, I find that people are more likely to actually read it. Especially on focused, well managed communities. I notice it with both on topic and off topic questions.
Why is that? Facebook shares a lot in common with forums and, when you break it down to the core, is like a personal forum in many ways. I think the difference comes with intent, how people choose to view the platform and how they spend their time on it. That impacts how they actually use it.
Certainly, a community on home decorating (including curtains and drapes) will be more focused on a question than your general Facebook friends. It also doesn’t hurt that people have to specifically choose to view the question, rather than being shown the question randomly in their news feed just because they are your Facebook friend. It could also speak to the mindset that people have when visiting forums. When people visit forums, they tend not to just be visiting for a minute or two. This means they are more in the reading and replying mode.
However, many people do visit Facebook with the intent to just pop in, take a quick scan, hit the like button a few times, add a comment or two here and leave. This leads to a lot of hit and run comments and comments where they may not have fully considered what they were responding to.
I believe that Facebook Groups focused on certain topics are better, because people join them with a purpose, but the information is still presented to them as part of their time on Facebook, so that might only partially help the mindset issue.
Your results may be different. There are plenty of variables at play. This is just an observation from spending time asking a lot of questions on different platforms. I don’t see this thought as being startling or surprising, but it serves as a good reminder that different platforms have different strengths.
Hi Patrick,
I wonder how would the poster’s reply have been received if he had said, “I don’t know where you can buy one, but I can advise you on how to make one if you are interested.”
I like the story and the points you raise about varying strengths of different platforms.
I do think though that this is an issue of generations. I have experienced many situations in day-to-day life and on forums, and it’s just as common as on facebook. I remember many incidents. For example, I once asked for walking directions to a neighbouring town and was given directions to the bus stop. I asked repeatedly and had no success, finally I settled for asking “where is the North Station” to get the direction of North and worked out directions for myself; I asked for a map and was told to take a taxi; I asked a girlfriend where she put the saucepan and was told “it was in the way, so I moved it.” After several more unsuccessful questions, I just started looking for it myself, and was expecting her to say “WHY DON’T YOU JUST ASK ME WHERE IT IS?” haha.
There is also another issue: in the curtain story. The negative “it’s impossible,” attitude and response.
I was recently searching (through Google) for advice on how to make my own bath-tub. I found many forums where people had asked exactly that question and received responses similar to your story. In those cases it was an impossibility for the responders to understand that somebody would actually want to MAKE a bath tub, not just to HAVE one. They can read, but their brain doesn’t ‘get’ it. I saw several forums where this same pattern had emerged, before finally finding a couple of sensible answers. Good answers were definitely in the minority.
So I think this is more an issue with the mentality of people in general and of course, that’s where the platform’s population comes in.
I suspect that you perhaps do not experience problems so much on the forums you run (and frequent) because of the way they are run and that is a credit to those forums in particular.
Hey Kal,
Thanks for the comment. This is just my observation and I realize that individual results will be different.
“I wonder how would the poster’s reply have been received if he had said, ‘I don’t know where you can buy one, but I can advise you on how to make one if you are interested.'”
This is sort of what I was referencing. I feel this pressure to qualify things to an extreme, pre-emptively. Yes, you can say the word “buy” more than once. You can always repeat yourself. He might have received a different reply or he might not have, but from reading his question, it was abundantly clear he wanted to buy it. There is also something to be said for brevity.
So, for example, this:
“Where can I buy curtains and have them delivered by July 13? I have a friend coming to stay and I need to get them quickly so that I can hang them up.”
Becomes this:
“Where can I buy curtains and have them delivered by July 13? I have a friend coming to stay and I need to get them quickly so that I can hang them up.
I need to buy them. Even though I have never made curtains in my life and everyone who knows me (most of my Facebook friends) knows that I would not, I cannot make them or buy fabric and make them or anything like that. I must buy them pre-made and have them in my hands by July 13. Not July 14, but July 13.”
I’ve seen people of all ages doing this, so I’m not sure if it is a generational thing, at least in my experience. I can’t speak to your bathtub examples and how clear the questions were when asked. Certainly people ask questions badly sometimes, myself included, but that is sort of a separate issue. This post is more about questions that are asked clearly, how many relevant answers are received and how how you intentions in using a particular platform create differences in how accurate the answers are.
I am definitely speaking of forums in general that I’ve been exposed to (and that’s a fair number of forums, certainly). Perhaps it is a credit to those forums, yes. There are many variables at play, as I mentioned, but I do think that people in general have a different intent when visiting forums, than when visiting their Facebook news feed, and that intent informs how aware they are of certain things.
Thanks again,
Patrick
Thanks:) i understand.
…and I’m certainly open to the idea that I socialise with the wrong people haha.
Haha. That’s probably not true. :) Thanks again.
Patrick